Dolce Vita

Went to pyramid around 12.00 and walk till 8.30

At first, 3 hrs of walking the whole pyramid

Half an hour of break in the lower ground food court

2 and a half hours in the popular reading and searching books.

An hour going to those speedy and dvd shops

20 minutes loitering around the skating arena

20 minutes doing some hand made stuffs

40 minutes eating dinner and sitting reading the books i bought


Total Expenses : RM 107.50
Rounded Off : RM 108.00

Is this going to last forever ..? Seriously lonely..

Man is a creature with thoughts and feelings. His physical needs like eating and sleeping are similiar to that of animals. However, it is in his public emotions that mark out his humanity and differentiate him from other creatures. Man is able to be kind, feel compassion and other noble feelings towards his fellow humans. Man, however, has unpleasant emotions which reveal his bad side like hatred, cruelty and jealousy.

Jealously is a negative emotion. To be jealous means being envious of someone or unhappy because one does not have a possession or something desirable which another person has.

The feeling that a jealous person bears towards another is not a good one. It is born out of envy, resentment and ill-will towards the other.

For example, a student may be jealous of a friend's good look or grades. It usually does not matter to him that the friend may have taken the trouble to make himself pleasant or studied hard to deserve his grades. All it matters to him is that he is envious that the other person has the thing, position or attributes he wants. There is a comparison, with the jealous person feeling unhappy that the other party has something that he desires.

Being jealous reflects on a person's immaturity. Jealousy, can lead to negative actions. A person who is jealous may slander his rival in love. Sometimes, he may even resort to violence.

Even nations may be jealous of other nations and go to war against them. A dictator in a poor nation, faced with a dissatisfied populace, may go to war against a prosperous neighbouring one out of jealousy and to solve his problems. A corporation losing business to another company may resort to dirty tactics against that company to win back their customers. Much unhappiness and suffering occurs when jealous parties resort to immoral acts against innocent parties whom they are envious of.

In popular literature and films, we often hear of the jealous lover. Having lost his beloved one's affections, he may give vent to his hate, rage and resort to ways to harm his rival and win his loved one. This scenario often forms the plot of many love melodramas in film. The audience is kept in suspense about the jealous person's future evil actions and this drives the film or plot along. Usually the evil, jealuos person will obtain his just desserts and be punished in the end of no one loves a jealous person.

Provided a jealous person does not resort to evil, some good may come out of a jealous state. A person who is jealous about his love rival or his prosperous business rival may be spurred on to improve himself or his form's efficiency to be one up on the other.

Jealousy will always be with the common man. A person who becomes a better person will learn not to have jealousy or to control it. All said and done, jealousy will always be with us.

since everything is meant to be like that

i will keep everything by myself

until the day,

nobody will know what happen

Friendship is definitely one of the most indispensable experiences of life. If you ask anyone around you if they have friends, surely their response will be one of shocked incredulity. The truth is, everyone has friends, whether not all of the close friend or category, but certainly of the friendly type.

Friends are important for several reasons. Firstly, they provide the kind of emotional support that family cannot give during out turbulent growing-up years. During this time, we often feel that the family cannot fully understand what we go through. Friends of our age are the usual recourse that we have when encountering problems in our love lives or studies. Even after we have graduated into adulthood, friends still prove to be powerful sources of emotional support. They listen to our lives, whether we are young and impressionable or experienced and wise.

Secondly, it is important that we make friends because they can help us in our most troubled times by simply listening or even providing companionship. Some of the best memories of life are those spent in the raucous company or quiet confidence of friends. Furthermore, friends are the first people we practise our social interaction skills on and most certainly refine such abilities.

We make friends first and foremost in the most natural way, i.e. when we meet new people. By a look or smile or even a simple greeting, we open the doors to friendship. Of course, there are people who are painfully shy. But just one party making the first move is enough. So even the shyest person ( just like me, haha ) will encounter people who are willing to make the first move.

Friends are also made through introductions by existing ones. In social gatherings, we usually meet other people who are strangers but quickly introduced to us because of mutual acquaintances. Although such friends may not end up being our good friends, a wider circle of even just casual friends is essential to our sense of well-being.

It is precisely because making friends is such a prevalent activity in life that is important to take note of certain things. Some people become our friends merely because we are useful to them in some way. For example, I had a friend who was deeply hurt when she realised that someone had made her acquaintance only because the latter had wanted to tap her knowledge on a difficult subject before the examinations. After the examinations, the person completely broke off the friendship without a word. It was a sobering experience for us all, for people can have ulterior motives when courting our friendship.

Another important consideration is the compatibility of our friends with us. After all, it is important that we share common interests rather than force ourselves to adopt attitudes or preferences that are not our own. If friendship becomes far too contrived, it is unlikely to last long. As such, it is essential that we are honest with ourselves and other people in making friends.

Making friends can be one of the most rewarding experiences in life. But too rosy an expectation of friendship can be dangerous as it may cause disillusion and great unhappiness. Like every other experience in life, one must always be ready to take the good with the bad.

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PS : I've no idea why I have such intuition to write these things ( included the previous topic - discipline ). Don't ask~I also don't know =p

Many people equate discipline with harsh rules and punishments. When one thinks of discipline, it is always associated with schools, the army or prisons. Hence, it is a word that is greatly detested by younger people. But this is a very narrow view of discipline. In fact, discipline is a concept that distinguish the strong from the weak, but a strength is by no means a physical one. Instead, this strength is control, both over actions and emotions. This is certainly not a negative tihng, instead it is the means by which we are able to complete tasks and exist harmoniously with others.

Discipline is necessary as long as we want to achieve our objectives. How many times have you needed to complete an assignment but found it hard to get down to it because there are many other distractions around you ? Your friends could be even going to the mall for an afternoon to have fun, which makes you even more restless. However, if you are disciplined, you will be able to shut out distractions and concentrate on getting your work done. This discipline will go a long way in establishing the correct work ethics that will come in handy whether you are a student or a worker. I guarantee many people know it.

Futhermore, discipline also helps you to manage your time efficiently. It makes you prioritise your commitment properly and helps you to objectively decide where your time should be spent. This is important as there are so many things that compete for your attention that you may end up making the wrong decisions based on personal likes and dislikes, rather than their relative importance. Thus, you may choose to go out and watch a movie first instead of studying for a test. Due to the fact that you will probably be too exhausted or too high sprits when you return from the outing, the likelihood of studying well for the test is dangerously low. In this way, you may end up failing the test. Such a price is surely too high to pay for lack of discipline.

Being able to control our negative emotions also an asset that we should develop. Thus, instead of flaring up over the slightest provocation, discipline enables us to logically assess situation carefully instead of giving in to our initial negative reactions. This will help lubricate our relationships and build up our interpersonal skill. Hence, emotional discipline is an important feature in a successful person.

~Done, good night everyone~

Exam Time!! Going to let this blog to ROT n ROT n ROT~!! Wheee. The following video will entertain you if you got nothing better to do =p